Same Sex Civil Unions

Do gays really want their relationships to become

mainstream and run-of-the-mill? I’ve become more

excepting of the gay lifestyle as it has been forced on

us over the past couple of decades. I’m sure

indoctrination was the intended result. Now I see

that they demand the right to marry. Oh boy, what a

mistake. I say give it to them if they are so stupidly

inclined. They obviously know not for what they

wish. Don’t they realize that having the legal inability

to marry is actually an incredible benefit? I mean,

really, how many other benefits can there possibly

be from sleeping with another man. You both like

the same things in sports and entertainment, neither

is inclined to nag incessantly, you are both always in

the mood, you have the freedom from government

intrusion and legal ties resulting in the gift that keeps

on giving…unrestrained promiscuity! That’s all the

positives I can think of. The freedom from legal ties

and abundance of promiscuity are the only things

that I can find attractive from that lifestyle; as an

outsider looking in. If you take away those pluses by

instituting a legal avenue for gay marriage, getting

the government involvement in these peoples

personal lives and burdening their relationships with

legal commitments then they will undoubtedly lose a

whole lot of members. When you are in such an

enviable position with an exceptional set of benefits

you have to think very hard before initiating action

that will result in abolishing them. You might

ultimately regret it and others to follow will abhor

your meddling.

Answer: Can True Love Be a Numbers Game?

Reader's question: "Can finding true love be a numbers game?"

Adam's answer:

It could be that you are not yet familiar enough with yourself to understand that you may be attracted to the wrong kind of guy. That might sound like a simple answer, but fixing that problem may be a little bit more time consuming. I'm guessing that the book you referenced offers a method of reaching the desired conclusion. Your proposed theory of dating three guys simultaneously to aid development of an idea of what you both want to find as well as honing in on what you wish to avoid sounds like a triangulation strategy.

While such a method might work for some I can imagine that very many women would find themselves overwhelmed and suffer even greater confusion. Might I suggest that rather than intentionally making your dating life more convoluted

and complicated that you instead try spending some time alone in thoughtful review? I'm willing to bet that a better solution will result from your serious

meditation on what it is you want as well as what type of guy will compliment your particular style.

Remember that a successful relationship is a partnership so you have to take an honest inventory of your own assets and liabilities. Sure this sounds overwhelming, but don't make the mistake of thinking you are alone in the challenging game that modern relationships have become. Take your time; don't be too focused on the goal that you fail to pay attention to the road you are traveling.

Lighten up and have a great laugh by looking at one man's many failed dating adventures by reading the book "Relationslips." There are a whole bunch of us

struggling to keep our heads up in this same turbulent sea. Best of luck to you in your own RelationSlips!